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Content, adjective: in
a state of peaceful happiness; satisfied with a certain level of achievement,
good fortune, etc., and not wishing for more; verb: satisfy (someone); noun: a
state of satisfaction.
Evolve, verb: develop
gradually, especially from a simple to a more complex form; (with reference to
an organism or biological feature) develop over successive generations,
especially as a result of natural selection.
Sober, adjective:
not affected by alcohol; not drunk; serious, sensible, and solemn; free from
alcoholism; not habitually drinking alcohol; muted in color; verb: make or
become sober after drinking alcohol; make or become more serious, sensible, and
solemn.
ASH Wednesday
“Lent is a period of
fasting, moderation, and self-denial traditionally observed by Catholics and
some Protestant denominations. It begins with Ash Wednesday and ends
with Easter Sunday. The length of the
Lenten fast was established in the 4th century as 46 days (40 days, not
counting Sundays). During Lent, participants eat sparingly or give up a
particular food or habit. It’s not uncommon for people to give up smoking
during Lent, or to swear off watching television or eating candy or telling
lies. It’s six weeks of self-discipline.
Lent began as a way for Catholics to remind themselves of the value of repentance. The austerity of the Lenten season was seen as similar to how people in the Old Testament fasted and repented in sackcloth and ashes (Esther 4:1-3;Jeremiah 6:26;Daniel 9:3).”
Read more about Lent here.
Lent began as a way for Catholics to remind themselves of the value of repentance. The austerity of the Lenten season was seen as similar to how people in the Old Testament fasted and repented in sackcloth and ashes (Esther 4:1-3;Jeremiah 6:26;Daniel 9:3).”
Read more about Lent here.
Since I am a Southern Baptist, it is not a
usual practice for Baptist to give up anything during Lent. If you question why
check out this link.
I have worked for an Episcopal boss, my mom is Catholic, and my boyfriend is Lutheran,
so I am familiar with Lent. Sometimes I participate in Lent to share the other practitioners
woe’s. I also take Lent seriously, or
else why do it? In the past, I’ve given up chewing gum- for which I have an
addiction to and should go to meetings (if there is such a thing). I’ve given
up eating french fries, drinking alcohol, and drinking sodas(these were
individually given up over the years– not all at once). The soda fast included me not eating apiece
of Dr. Pepper cake. I was chastised for not eating it because “eating” was not “drinking,”
but JESUS would know!!!
Regardless
of how I sang in the choir; I am infatuated with monks. I have a serious crush on the late Thomas
Merton. In no means am I making light of
anyone’s religious affiliations. Nor, do
I want to persuade your religious beliefs.
With that being said, I’ll share with you my conversation with my
friends over Lent that almost got me punched in the face!
This past Sunday the 15th, my girlfriends Arlene, Lucy Kay, and I pondered
what each of us would give up for Lent.
Lucy Kay and I always love to wind up Arlene.
Arlene
said, “I like everything. My doctor
already made me give up alcohol. I’ve been
sober now almost a year.”
“For Lent you give up something that you
cherish so you will suffer, Lent is not about being content with what you give up,” I said.
“I could give up candy,” said Arlene.
“Does candy include nuts? What about those tooth breaking nut clusters
you get from Sam’s?” I ask.
“Candy is one thing. Nuts are another. I don’t have to give up two things!” Arlene
protested. She shot me a look like she was going to come at me.
“Arlene, you should give up cheese puffs,”
said Lucy Kay. “Every book I get from
you after you have read it has orange finger prints all through it.”
“I do not eat cheese puffs. I eat
Cheetos. They are crunchy.”
“Yeah, give up Cheetos,” I begin to
laugh. I know Arlene eats a bag of
Cheetos a day.
Arlene was getting hot, “What the hell are you
going to give up?” she asked snarkily.
“Maybe you should give up cussing!” Lucy Kay
was fueling the fire.
“What the hell???” I repeat with a smirk, “Is
cussing something you really enjoy Arlene?”
Now, I’ve done it. Arlene was ready to fight! I braced myself ready to take the punch,
because I knew it was coming.
Lucy Kay was laughing and she
saw it coming too, but before Arlene could throw the punch, she said, “Boy this
is good cake!”
I’m not stupid. I hurried to
the kitchen to get me a piece so Arlene could cool off. I escaped getting punched.
When I return I say, “I need to eat cake, I might give it up for Lent,” Arlene
made the cake. She’s made cakes as long
as I’ve known her. Only a compliment could change Arlene’s attitude. I choked down the cake, and said it was yummy!
Arlene’s cakes are dry but we don’t tell her.
Her cakes have not evolved over
the years. They are still hard to digest. If I
give up eating cake, I will have an excuse not to eat her cakes for a few
weeks.
FYI- I’m giving up an hour of
sleep for Lent. I’m going to get up early and
walk the dog. The dog will hate it
because he is not a morning person. I
know I will have to explain Lent to him, and I already know what he will say, “What
the hell?? You chose this for Lent, not
me!!” My Boston Terrier cusses like a
sailor, but that’s only because he’s tiny and uses his diva attitude to get
what he wants. Perhaps he cusses because he spends a lot of time with
Arlene.
Happy Lent Ya’ll!
-
DP